Turkish Cypriot early years researcher, author and consultant, Dr Mine Conkbayir, has been made a Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) in the New Year Honours list ‘for services to early years’.
Her Investiture took place at Windsor Castle last week, where she collected her Insignia from His Royal Highness Prince William.
Dr Conkbayir said:
‘’I am beyond thrilled that I have been made an MBE in the New Year Honours list. When I got the phone call from the Cabinet Office, my initial response was, while shaking, ‘’if this is a joke, it isn’t funny’’! ‘’I can assure you that this is no joke’’, came the reply. ‘’The Prime Minister has recommended you to the King for services to early years’’. I was so overcome with joy, that I burst into tears.
“There is a version of us that is perceptible to others – the adult, the professional, the one who has their life in order. On the inside, my life is a daily battle with myself to just be here. You see, the reason I do all that I do – from advocating for infants, children and young people – to my efforts in the criminal justice system, is all due to my chaotic and traumatic childhood. Daily life was a toxic mix of physical, emotional and domestic abuse, with my ‘father’s’ drug misuse fuelling much of the abuse, neglect and trauma.
“So, as a child, school was my lifeline. And this is why I became a teacher – a role I have undertaken with love for over 25 years. I wanted to be that one safe adult for those children and young people who were experiencing similar challenges at home. These days, I do more research and writing, as well as co- host the Podcast series, ‘I’m ADHD! No You’re Not’ with comedy actor, Paul Whitehouse.
“For me, my MBE brings with it a moral duty to continue to do all I can to make a positive difference to society. It motivates me to ensure that all my actions cause ripple effects that can transform the lives of those in our society who experience struggle, hardship and discrimination on a daily basis. This award inspires me to continue to work tirelessly as an advocate for those without a voice or choice.
“I am determined that my MBE will not ‘just’ be three letters after my name, but will leave a legacy of actions for others.”